Little Miss Drama

On Marriage

on October 12, 2006

Keep this in mind. This is for all:the recently married, the ones who have been married, the soon to get married, and the ones who are still looking. Years ago, I asked God to give me a spouse, “You don’t own because you didn’t ask” God said. Not only I asked for a spouse but also explained what kind of spouse I wanted. I want a nice, tender, forgiving, passionate, honest, peaceful, generous, understanding, pleasant, warm, intelligent, humorous, attentive, compassionate and truthful. I even mentioned the physical characteristics I dreamt about. As time went by I added the required list of my wanted spouse. One night, in my prayer, God talked to my heart: “My servant, I cannot give you what you want.” I asked God “Why?” God said, “Because I am God and I am fair. God is the truth and all I do are true and right” I asked “God, I don’t understand why I cannot have what I ask from you?” God answered, ” I will explain. It is not fair and right for me to fulfill your demand because I cannot give something that is not your own self. It is not fair to give someone who is full of love to you if sometimes you are still hostile or to give you someone generous but sometimes you can be cruel; or someone forgiving, however, you still hide revenge; someone sensitive, however, you are very insensitive…” He then said to me:”It is better for Me to give you someone who I know could grow to have all qualities you are searching; rather than to make you waste your time to find someone who already has the qualities you want. Your spouse would be bone from your bone and flesh from your flesh and you will see yourself in HIM/HER and both of you will be one.” Marriage is like a school. It is a life-long education span. It is where you and your partner make adjustments and aim not merely to please each other, but to be better human beings and to make a solid teamwork. “I don’t give you a perfect partner, because you are not perfect either. I will give you a partner with whom you could grow together”


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